T in Tennessee
Dear Jennifer,
I know you'll think I am totally nuts when I tell you this. My friends and
family think I am. I truly believe the only man in the world meant for me
is Garth Brooks. I believe he is truly my soul mate, and if I could just
meet him I know he would see it. There aren't any men like him out there
any more. He is kind, family oriented, Christian, and all the things that
a woman could wish for. How do I get to meet him?
T in Tennessee
Dear T,
I am not sure if you're crazy or not (see above disclaimer). What I am
certain of is that you're obsessed with the fantasy of a public figure. I
am not a big country music listener (sorry Garth and fans).
So I did a little net search to see why
it is you're so into this man. He does have a great look, sweet and down
home. He also has a great reputation for being very pure-hearted, but that
may not be the real him. With many celebrities a “public” image is created
for them and maintained by a publicist, etc. I know this from my years
around entertainment and celebrities. You're not being realistic.
There are TONS of men out there who
really are kind hearted, family oriented, with Christian values and this
obsession with Garth maybe stopping you from giving them a chance. Maybe
that's what you really want; maybe this obsession is your security
blanket, a way to keep away from the real world and getting hurt. I have a
feeling that you have been hurt before and this is the result of it. I
could be wrong, but I highly doubt it.
Listen, we date to get to know people
and to see who is a “good fit” for us. In this process we get hurt. I
cannot count the many times I have been hurt. From that trial and error
process we learn, we learn what we really want and need thus eliminating
the wrong people and leading us to the right. Get off this obsession and
get out in the real world. You're missing out on life, and it is too
short.
What do you want to be? A stalker?
Really, I am serious, get out there and mingle with people you can really
touch and talk to. Good Luck to you! Besides from what I read on him he is
attached to another Country Star, Trisha.
xoxoxoxoxoxo Jennifer Leigh
Dumb with Men
Dear Jennifer,
I got into a fight with my boyfriend while we were driving home from my
birthday party and threw a 2-carat diamond bracelet he gave me out the
window. It was never found. We never really had a great relationship; he
always buys me things but is never really there for me. That was what the
fight was over. We are over now, what do I do?
Dumb with men
Dear Dumb (nice name to choose),
Lesson number one! Never toss the jewels, throw some thing of his out of
the car. I guarantee you he'll find it if it's his stuff! But ok, you're
expecting me to give you some deep advice here right? If this consuls you
at all, then try to convince yourself that you would have been reminded of
a bad situation and bad memories every time you looked at that bracelet.
You want to know “what to do”, about
what? Do you want me to tell you how to get back in a bad relationship? I
don't think so, be glad it's over. Or are you asking me how to find your
bracelet? Tell me where and I'll take a metal detector and go look for it;
finder's keeper's Honey. Listen, get some independence and quit looking
for a “sugar daddy”. The best jewelry you own is that which you were able
to buy for your self! Good Luck!
xoxoxoxoxoxox Jennifer Leigh
Thanks for all the interesting questions. Take care
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