I Don't Read Women Correctly
Hi Jennifer
Thanks for you excellent advice. I have no trouble chatting up girls, but my main problem is I don't always read women correctly. Believe it or not, I have a very good degree in psychology, but this doesn't help. Two weeks ago, I met this girl with a mate of mine in a pub in Brighton. She came with another girl and a guy. She sat on our table with her two friends. She constantly turned around to me apologising for the smoke fumes coming from her cigarette. I played your "cocky and funny" technique on her and made her chill out and laugh. She said. "Where do you work?" I said. "Just across the road." She said.. "My name is Sarah, and I'd like to come and see you." "I also work nearby." "Tell me your name and work address." I responded accordingly. She wrote them down.
I still haven't heard from her. Was she just flirting with me? If so, why bother taking down my details? What do women go for? Do they go for looks, or other things. Many girls have told me that I'm good looking, but I don't always know if they mean it. Women are so complicated.
Thanks,
Fivos
Dear Fivos,
Good question! There are a couple of possible answers here, and I am going to give you both of them. First, she could have been slightly buzzed from the alcohol you were consuming at the pub. Women, and men, tend to do and say things that they really don't mean when under the influence. Both sexes tend to be braver when drinking! Since I don't know if she was intoxicated so it is hard for me to say whether or not she was simply searching to stroke her ego that evening. We are some times fliratious just to boost our own self esteem.
The second possible answer is this, she was feeling braver than usual and really is attracted to you, but is now sober and too shy to call upon you. They best way to find out is to go to her. Take the chance as it may pay off. It appears to me that a good time and enjoyable conversation was had by both of you, and I am thinking that she has just gotten a little shy. We women may initiate interest, but the truth is we still like a man to pursue us!
Lovingly,
Jennifer Leigh
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